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A Modern Take on Divorce In The Philippines

For centuries the Spanish have boldly enforced the Catholic religion to the masses in the Philippines. King Philip of Spain demanded this religion and his forces overtook the country in the 16th century to press their beliefs. For a time Spain’s presence had been diminished by the Filipino people who did not want them or their religion. Some parts of the country easily accepted the Spanish rule while other regions were entwined in battles over hundreds of years.. The boldest of all islands was the isle of Mindanao and the Moro’s who kept the Spanish at bay and away from their untouched land. In modern times the laws which were instilled here are now being challenged. The biggest challenge is finding a new age solution to allowing divorce in the Philippines. With a new law set in place the people here living in an unhappy marriage can find a way to move on with their lives.

With religion comes power, power to the people and often power to the gods which they live by. The Philippines has long been controlled by the Catholic Church and numerous times its laws are based on ideas established by them. In a modern intellectual society this has now set the stage for the era of free thinkers and a new age of people to transform century old laws.

Just like the laws of this country, the people also need help from their impoverished standpoint, and without assistance this cannot happen. Rules which dictate family have long been a focal point in the Philippines. Divorce in the Philippines has recently been talked about by the governing bodies. This and many other laws need a modern road map to the future and away from the path that has been followed for hundreds of years. The Philippine people seek this and without contemporary thinking they will once again be locked into a work subjective to ideas of centuries long ago.


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Austronesian People of the Philippines


Austronesian people are various populations of Southeast Asia and the Pacific Ocean region, some as far away as Easter Island. These conglomerations of isles all speak a form of Austronesian family dialect. From as early as 10,000 B.C. the people of Taiwan migrated from island to island. These inhabitants are the ancestors who first spoke this ancient language. Throughout time many tribes and kingdoms were created and with this came varying differences of the language and apposing laws to their lands. The Philippines invented erratic laws which dictated divorce in the Philippines and today stand by that notion in a modern world. Other age old laws that are still on the books include the strange law of numbered license plates and the days in which they can drive on the road. If this law has been overlooked for decades then how could modernization of any important laws like divorce in the Philippines truly take place?


Religion is as varied as the people and their cultures. The Philippine people today are mostly Christian with other beliefs which vary from Hinduism, Buddhism and Judaism. Other degrees of Orthodox Christianity and Protestant also entwined their religion here since the beginning of the 20th century. Though many types of beliefs are known these are some of the strongest in today’s culture here. 


In modern times the people of the Philippines have come to recognize the social advances which this country can provide to its people. With proper laws of divorce in the Philippines one can understand the advantage of finding a resolution to an often difficult life when gripped by age old legislation. Through guidance many parts of the modern world accept family laws with respect to divorce and other separation issues. The Philippines and its forward path to the future can hopefully see the results which come with laws that will help its people live in peace.

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True and Strange Beliefs In The Philippines

The Philippines is a country steeped in superstition and unique cultural beliefs. Many of these beliefs are derived from traditional influences which date back to ancient times. Some of these phenomenon’s are nothing short of odd in some cases and outright crazy in others. In modern day society these superstitions are being practiced on a daily basis. This and many other sociological divides often cause married couples issues within their families. Many times foreigners who marry in the Philippines cannot accept this type of strange behavior. This divide is how many couples end up getting a divorce in the Philippines.


Many ancient tribes that still live in the Philippine islands and  practice ancestral ceremonies. These religious events are often to thank their forefathers and give praise to the gods for something they are about to receive. These types of beliefs are much like the American Indians and their unique culture is lived in much the same manner.


Some strange beliefs in the Philippines include issues for pregnant women. It is believed that if the woman comes close to an ugly animal or eats a certain kind of food she will inheritable give birth to a baby who may look like a monkey or has hair like an ape. This belief alone is one reason why many mothers will not go out in public when pregnant. Other superstitions pertain to money including not putting money on the dining room table as it brings bad luck. Additional beliefs include clipping your toenails at night as that is a sign that you want an elder relative to die.


There are many other aspects of life in the Philippine islands and is something which has to be looked at when thinking of marriage here. If ideals at first seem comical to a person, later in life it may not be something that seems all too funny anymore. This and many other reasons that bring different couples together is also many times what tear them apart. Before giving thought to marriage in these islands be certain to look into the family and their outlook on cultural beliefs. Searching for the perfect person to marry is always a quest which often leads us in the wrong direction. For those coming to the Philippines for marriage are often beset with problems which can be unforeseen. For those that take the wrong path a divorce in the Philippines is a remedy which is often the only avenue to pursue.


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The Philippines: A Progressive Path to the Future

The Philippines is once again receiving center stage attention to the people of the world. Not only has the economic upswing of many Asian countries helped this attention, but the outreaching lands which are near have received the same rewards as well. The superior position of the Philippines and the exports of necessary commodities have put the islands at full consideration to the modern world. Now these islands are reaching a turning point to which to modernize the laws that were formed around its people for centuries. The legal codes which govern family tradition and divorce in the Philippines have come to the forefront of such discussions.

Family law has allowed a country whose population has tripled in size in the last 3 decades, to disallow issues which bring couples to legal separations and divorce. The Philippines is a great archipelago that has a long standing tradition imbedded in Catholic beliefs. Without the country and the church seeing past the blinding effects of this 18th century idea then the people of these lands cannot find a peaceful resolution to domestic problems related to marriage.

The information highway of the 21st century has allowed for more free thinking people all around the world. This country has come through one of the longest paths to find modernization and the use of the internet highway. This open book of knowledge allows for citizens to see the progress here and for the Filipino community to observe the progressive ways of other prevailing countries. The information found has helped the people to better understand that divorce in the Philippines is not a deterrent or negative path away from the church. Like most peaceful resolutions this too will take time, effort and understanding by all communities within these lands. In the end hopefully modern interpretation will help a country bring itself even higher in respect then it already bears.

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Children and the Issue of Divorce in the Philippines

Children in the Philippines are highly respectful and many are treated with a family closeness which does not compare to many other countries. Young children are given the all familiar godfathers and godmothers to watch over them in their adolescent lives. In marriage another type of Ninong or god-relative is given to help those families in times of need and trouble. Marriages that are in consistent demand of Ninongs can often lead to a divorce in the Philippines. Though no country in the world is perfect the Philippines has a history of togetherness, which is envied by so many.


When receiving respect with Filipino children, whether it is with a foreign sibling or not, one should lay the ground rules for the younger ones. Not only does this introduce admiration to them but often leads to a family which will grow to be happier in life. This is true with any family, but here the implementation is much easier due to their strong beliefs and a good will towards one another. Family means everything here and throughout their life someone is watching over them, whether it be from birth or to their dying days.


Those that choose to not form a class of respect habitually find themselves dealing with issues which have far reaching problems. Filipino children who are not held with that type of regard will often not give what they receive. Undoubtedly this will lead them down a path which will cause unheard issues. Giving respect is a two way street, something we all hopefully comprehend. Problems which tend to be overlooked in a busy Western world are given priority here. Without love and admiration to all around them, children can and often do cause couples to divorce in the Philippines.

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Divorcing in the Philippines

Every month we receive six or seven requests for divorces that do not progress past the initial inquiry.

Mainly these requests come from Filipinas who are stuck in an unhappy or unworkable marriage and are desperately seeking a way out.

Their husbands are not working and cannot feed or clothe their family and most domestic tasks are left to the woman.   These women barely scrape through each day to feed the children and sort of exist in a form of total exhaustion.

Although the husband does not have a regular income he does seem to find money for alcohol, gambling, cigarettes and often another woman.

Many of these women have been subjected to quite brutal beatings from their spouses but are reluctant to call the police in fear of reprisals from her husband’s family.  Each drunken attack on the woman leaves her in fear of another unwanted pregnancy.

On the other hand we receive many inquiries from foreigners who have met a beautiful Filipina but he discovers she is already married.  Often these girls have been abandoned by their boyfriends or husbands and left to fend for themselves.

Suddenly a foreigner comes along and a caring relationship is formed.   As love blossoms and they meet for a month or so they both decide they begin making plans for their future together.

The issue now becomes one of “is she free to marry”?  Often the answer is that she is not free to marry.

After discussions with many people including lawyers, they learn the only way to break that marriage is through an Annulment.

So they start to talk with a lawyer.  They are soon shocked and dismayed to learn that an annulment is expensive (350,000 plus) and might take several years to reach a conclusion.  If the lawyer is really honest he will tell them that not all annulments are granted and some end in failure.

Then they have to go through the worry of making such a big decision.  The girl is usually willing to start the annulment process as it will give her the opportunity to become free and possibly marry the foreigner which might lead to her being able to begin a new life in another country.

Sometimes they are forced to make the decision to reject the annulment way simply because of the high cost and length of time involved.  Then suddenly two people have had their hopes and plans destroyed and are left wondering what to do.

So if you are reading this and some parts of it sound familiar to your own experiences take heart because there is another and much easier way!

This other way is much quicker and cheaper and is guaranteed to result in the woman becoming free to marry the love of her life.

Just go to learn how we can change your life…legally and quickly.

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Abolishment of Divorce

During World War II almost the entire world was entwined in battles that eventually ended with the fall of many superpowers. Not only did this war change the face of the planet but it also changed the lives of so many who fought for love and country. Lands which were previously unknown became a focal point to obtaining peace in this wartime era. The Philippines was a super fortress and for those who wanted to occupy it they would have to fight long and hard for it. Those that came here to fight returned later in life to love it and create families among the Filipino people. During the 1950s divorce in the Philippines had been abolished under the new family code which was put into law by its people. Now, nearly 60 years later, this law and many others are being looked at in a new and modern way. 

For those who were tormented by the horrific effects of World War II many spent their lives seeking peace for themselves. When marrying under the guise of the Philippines these worldly hero’s often are cemented by the laws in which they chose to marry under. Through no fault of their own, soldiers who married here had no real way out of a bad relationship without going through a long and messy annulment.

Even after World War II the Philippines returned to being a country which supported the wars of America throughout mainland Asia including the Vietnam War. This land has been a great haven for those looking to live a simple life and for many it is a dream come true to settle there. For those who did not find peace in these islands or with their Filipino wife has long been in need of a divorce in the Philippines. With a new era of people not blinded by the light of the Catholic Church, today it is possible to obtain such a divorce.

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